Spouse’s time discipline is important for everyone and in everything
Spouses should really be made for each other. Some things, nay, all things should be available on time. If not, problems start creeping up and slowly turn into monsters! Cliche as I might sound, nipping in the bud is the trick in saving a marriage, business, come on, the entire life.
Whether it be food, sex, or, for that matter, even the expression of true love needs to be timely. Otherwise, Satan loses no time in creating misunderstandings, apprehensions, and whatnot! And for all the bad things to start in this universe, a small seed is enough. After all, this entire universe began as a small seed. The universe is a good thing. And there is none like its creator. He is the best.
But the problem is with the creations, a.k.a. creatures. The creatures, especially human beings, are the Almighty’s best creations. And we have the power to be the best and the worst. As long as it is the former, there is no problem. Problems arise when we tend towards the latter!
As long as the moolah is arriving, there is no problem
Problems arise when the spouse (these days it doesn’t matter whether it is the husband or wife as both usually work!) loses his/her job. Or there is a loss in the business run by one of the spouses. Sometimes, there might be other misfortunes, such as accidents, when one of the spouses becomes incapacitated. And sometimes even becomes bedridden.
Then start the real problems and the original tests of this ephemeral world. God tests His beings in different ways. Our whole life is the biggest test. We are tested with nearly everything in this world – with our children, money, belongings, wealth, etc. The Almighty tests people, especially spouses both by giving and taking. Trust me, there is more testing in what He gives than in what He takes!
We assume that wealth is the handiwork of our hard work. Yes, hard work is essential in everything in our lives. But sometimes in life, it is as if one is up against innumerable blocks, both real and imaginary (most of them)! However, if the spouses remain supportive of each other through thick and thin, their relationship will remain solid until the end of their lives. Saying this is easy, but walking the talk is very difficult.
So, no matter what, support each other always and in all ways
No matter the situation in life, there is always a way out. One has to just trust the Almighty. For He can change any situation in the wink of an eye. But the Almighty too loves the people who work hard and put their trust in Him. It is very easy to remain happy in good situations. But bad situations test the real you!
Your spouse’s body is the most precious real estate you can own in this world! Trust me, if you find love in each other. And keep on loving every moment of your lives together, you will be the happiest couple in this entire universe. This requires complete trust and faith in each other. And it also helps keep one’s roving eyes away from other’s spouses, spinsters, etc.
Love all and hate none. Yes, one might get angry for a while with someone’s attitude, actions, or words. But it’s better to forgive and forget. The latter part is easier said than done. Hey, go out and enjoy your life to the fullest. But do it responsibly and avoid all sorts of forbidden things (fruits, illegal substances, and above all alcohol – the mother of all evils)!